thanks so much for trying to help me. i cant tell you how much it is appreciated!
here is my entire setup:
pacbell DSL
Router and ap
netgear rp614 router B
netgear me102 ap
Desktop
(xp pro)(firewall ZA free)
sony vaio laptop
(xp pro) with built in b/g card (firewall nothing at the moment)
dell 4150 laptop
(xp home) (b card ma401 netgear) (firewall sygate free)
i have had a network setup for 1.5 years so far between the dell and the desktop and all works fine. all computers have the same workgroup name and yes they all have the same user name and password.
THANKS for the help. please let me know what other info you need to help me figure this out.
ps i will try the wired connection tonight. i have to run out now (with my sweet new vaio